Thursday, December 28, 2006

Spanish Vacation impressions and pics

Rob and I were Spain for a week in early December. Here are my general impressions:

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Fisherman at sunset in Cadiz
Cadiz sunset

Spain was pretty incredible, and had so many different facets to it. In some ways the Mediterranean architecture and ocean seemed like part of LA, in some ways picture-postcard Spain, and in some ways (particularly some of the castles) out of a fairy tale.

Rob and I at Alhambra castle
Alhambra palace - Granada

We were in Andalusia, the southern party of Spain. You drive through mile upon mile of olive trees and rolling green hills. They have been cultivating olives here for the last 3,000 years! The cities are all built with gleaming white houses, in the local style. Many are purched on hilltops, so the rise atop the mountain from the green hills. Many of the cities retain the Middle-eastern Moorish influence even almost 900 years after the Moors left Spain. Houses have a plain white outside with characteristic "keyhole" doorways, but inside is beautifully tiled with gardens and fountains.

Granada view

The castles are unbelievable. At the same time the Western Europeans were living in drafty stone castles, the Moorish Sultans were living in glistening white palaces with heating, plumbing and beautiful gardens. Every square inch of the walls and ceiling area decorated in mosaics, plaster art or paintings. The most incredible, something everyone should see once in a life time, is the Alhambra, the palaces in Granada.

Alhambra castle "Court of Lions"
Alhambra - Palace of Lions

he Siesta is alive and well in Spain! Every day from about 2-5 all the shops all close (including tourists shops) for the afternoon break. The Spanish eat at a totally different schedule too - small breakfast in the early morning, snack at about 11, a heavy meal at about 2-3 (during Siesta), then dinner after 9 PM. Woe to the tourist hungering for a meal at 6 or 7 PM, most restaurants are not even open yet! A must try in Spain is Tappas - small plates with of just about anything - you can make a whole meal out of the small plates of a variety of foods!

Tapas anyone?

We saw many Sea-kitties in Spain. There seems to be a large population of feral cats living on the rocks near the water. I think they live on the offal from the local fisherman. We also saw locals coming to feed them. They all looked pretty well fed, but must not enjoy the rain!

Spanish Sea Kitties
Tarifa sea kitty

For those that like chic clothes, Spain is the place for you! I think it is a law that women have to wear stylish heels or leather boots, even to do grocery shopping. You see shoe shops with beautiful shoes on every corner, about the same rate as Starbucks in LA. Grannies walk down the street in fur coats and stylish leather flats. Tweens and teens wear stylish "skinny jeans" and sweaters, ladies wear stylish coats and slacks. Even the little kids looked like something out of a winter postcard, with bows in the little girls hair and matching little coats and tights. I felt downright dowdy in my regular jeans and Dutch winter jacket, but I bought some pretty Spanish sweaters and shirts.

Torromolinos
Toromolinos

Driving in Spain is not for the faint of heart. Traffic lights and signs are more warning than law, as running red lights seems a national sport. Mopeds race around every corner and between cars. I think the street sign department had major cutbacks, since we never really saw street signs or directions, and every few streets your road could randomly end in a dead end of construction. Finding your way is more a matter of Harry Potter magic and trial/error. Somehow, Rob would look at the sun, say "I think we are going North, that seems about right" - all those years of sailing navigation paying off! I'd madly look for a monument, any monument, and see if I could find the picture on the map to see where we were.

Saturday, December 23, 2006

Spanish vacation and preview of coming attractions

Hello all,

Sorry its been 2 weeks since the last blog entry. It seems like both such a short and a long time ago. A lot has happend in the last 2 weeks. I'll write a brief update here, and promise more details to follow shortly.

In chronological order;

1. Dec. 8th - took the final exam for my Dutch language course and graduated. Yes, I know, I have not written anything about school yet. Details to follow shortly soon, promise.

2. Dec. 9th - 17th - week long tour of spain
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3. Dec. 20th - Passed my dutch Theory exam. Only 2/14 taking the test passed. Much more difficult than in US - blog entry to follow about this.

4. Dec. 21-22th - Had first 2 job interviews, with more pending.

Well, its well after midnight, so quick update given. Promise more details very soon.

Friday, December 8, 2006

I celebrated a belated Thanksgiving with Rob’s family last Sunday, Dec. 3rd. We also celebrated the Dutch holiday “Sinter Klaus”.

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Yummmmm! Turkey

This was the first time I tried to cook a turkey without the Master Chef , a.ka. Mom. After many hours of expert consultation the day before with my Mom, Rob and I set out to cook our first turkey. We had some authentic American imports brought in my parents suitcases in October like stuffing, cranberry sauce, corn bread and gravy. Luckily I thought to bring our US measuring cup, as the instructions were US measure of cups and teaspoons, but Rob’s mom only had a cup in metric measure. We made stuffing, fresh corn bread, potatoes, green beans and warm grravy.

Rob inspecting turkey

Its a tough job, but someones gotta do it

And of course, you need a turkey. Nettie had to go to the wild game specialty shop to order our turkey a week in advance, as in Holland very few people order an entire bird. It was a delicious free-range turkey. The 7-lb turkey filled Rob’s parents oven almost entirely. The plastic turkey-bag my Mom brought burned a bit on the top of the oven, it was such a tight fit. Luckily after a minute of burnt-plastic smell, it all cleared up and the turkey came out beautifully!

Thanksgiving dinner in Holland

At dinner, I had to provide a bit of epicurean advice – corn bread is traditionally eaten with honey or butter, cranberry sauce is for turkey, gravy is for turkey, potatoes and stuffing….and everyone had a wonderful meal.

Rob's windmill suprise

After the meal, we celebrated the Dutch tradition of Sinter Klaus. The Dutch Sint is different than Santa Claus, much more practical. He lives in Madrid instead of the cold north pole. He arrives each year in the Netherlands on December 5 by steamboat instead of outmoded sleigh and reindeer. With the assistance of his “zwarte petes”, he delivers gifts to homes on his horse. Kids leave hay for the horse in they’re wooden clogs, and receive a gift in the shoe in place.

Quinten's sinterklaus gift

We did a “Secret Sinter Klaus” with Rob’s family. We each drew a wish-list randomly out of a bowl. You write a poem with the gift. Gifts are sometimes wrapped in “surprise” packaging. Rob the engineer created an entire 2-foot tall cardboard windmill to contain the gifts of 4 egg-cups and some small clothing…never would have guessed the gift by the packaging, a real “surprise”. Quinten received a masterfully written 8 line rhyming poem (in Dutch naturally) from yours truly. He was very impressed by it!

We also sang some traditional holiday songs, drank hot chocolate and ate traditional cookies. It was an incredible evening celebrating 2 traditions. I think all Dutch should try Thanksgiving and Americans try Sinter Klaus once, a holiday exchange program!

Saturday, December 2, 2006

Beach Party in November?

Beach partiers

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Last Saturday (Nov. 26th). I went to a beach party, Holland style. Yes, of course they have beaches in Holland, the land of water. But its about 40 degrees outside, not exactly time to pull out the bikini and work on your tan. A co-worker of Rob’s rented a warehouse, and had sand trucked into the warehouse. He rented palm trees, a volleyball court, a drink-cabaƱa and a hammock, and most important, heat lamps!. They had a DJ playing, and beach volleyball going. So, digging to the bottom of my boxes, I dug out some Cali-style sun gear and went partying. Well, California with a bit of Holland winter…I had tights on under the shorts, and my winter coat over the tank top, but hey, it was a beach party!

Beach party??


The next day we celebrated Rob’s parents’ 38th wedding anniversary. First we went to a petting zoo so baby Quinten could pet a little goat that was almost as big as he was. After that, I went with him on the swings to work up an appetite. After an intense swing session, we ate dinner at a nice Italian restaurant and wished Jan/Nettie a very happy 38th anniversary. They then went on a 3 day trip to Germany to celebrate (but for some odd reason did not take us with them, gee, wonder why?)

Laurie & Quinten on Swing

At the end of the evening, Quinten felt we all had too much celebratory wine and said he'd drive us home.

The youngest car driver in Holland

Friday, November 24, 2006

World championship wood cutting?

Holland REALLY does not have “Must See TV” on Friday Nights! I am sitting here at 10:00 trying to find anything to watch on TV.

We have:


1. Soccer (there is always soccer on somewhere)
2. Sinter Klaus (Dutch Santa show)
3. A Dutch version of American Idol – “Tarzan”. Audition really pale, skinny guys to be the “lord of the jungle” in a musical. Desperate enough….maaaaybe, NO, not that desperate.


Moving on…
4. News in Dutch or English(5 stations of it) – read it on internet, don’t need recap.
5. entire show devoted to weather….WHY? You can sum it up in 1 word: rain.
6. Discovery Channel – this is really should be named Discover the Manly Man Channel. They find 24 hours a day on car shows. I did not know they made that many car shows

7. Animal Channel – OK, sometimes good shows here. Now is “Meercat Manor”. Watching the little fellows dig in the dirt gets a little old after a minute, even with the cool sound track.

8.Our local porn station – no, we did not ask for, or pay for it, dutch cable just gives it to you. What can I say, its Europe.

9. Sport Channel – World Wood Chopping Championships.
No, I DID NOT make this up, serious, google it!

After 2 edge-of-seat excitement minutes watching the Australian guy beat the German wood-cutter I decided I really cant be this desperate. I tuned off the TV and wrote this blog instead. Since you’re reading this, guess nothing good on TV there either.

Saturday, November 18, 2006

Cubist homes, Sinter Klaus, and a very boring train station

Laurie, Paula and Delilah at cubist houses

Today I went on a day trip to Rotterdam with 2 of my class mates from Dutch class. I went with Paula from Spain and Delilah from England.

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The trip there went a bit of plan. I was supposed to meet them at “Rotterdam Blaak”. I forgot there are 5 Rotterdam XXX stations, and got off 1 to soon at “Rotterdam Zuid”. If you want the most boring train station in Holland, maybe in all Europe, this is it! As the train pulled out, 2 things: a. wrong station, b. next train in 30 minutes. Well, I put the time to very good use, I discovered I have solitaire on my cell phone!

Half hour wait at worlds most boring train station

30 minutes later, I joined Delilah and Paula. They were not as fortunate as I to have experienced the life altering wait at Rotterdam Zuid, so they waited for 30 minutes at the correct station.

Cubist houses

We went to visit one of the architectural points of interest in Holland, the “Cubist Houses”. Rotterdam was almost totally destroyed by bombing in WW2. After the war, many of the buildings were rebuilt in experimental style. A perfect example are the cubist houses, built in the 1980’s at a 45 degree angle. Going inside the museum house was like walking into a Picasso painting. The walls slope, and windows look out at all sorts of odd angles. The 3rd floor, a sort of “sun room”, had an entire skewed ceiling and walls of little glass windows. And they even had an entire wall of “Lord of the Rings” memorabilia on display (Oh, I AM in heaven!). Interested in living in a cube? Well, for the bargain price of $260,000, you too can live here.

Cutist houses and sky line

Sinter Klaus and kids On the way home, I say Holland’s answer to sitting on Santa’s knee. The Dutch have “Sinter Klaus” instead of old St. Nick. Instead of elves, he has “Swarte Petes”, or “Black Petes”….more on Sinter Klaus in another blog…. Kids still line up to sit on his knee just like a US mall-Santa.

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Dutch Ship Museum & St. Martins Day

Rob and The Hollander
Last Saturday, Rob and I visited the Dutch Ship Museum in Amsterdam. Yes, this was Rob’s turn to choose a museum to visit, but next time we are going to the “Costume History Museum” in Antwerp!

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This was actually a very interesting museum. This is an actual life-sized replica ship built in the same style as the 17th century Dutch trade ships. It took 400 volunteers over 15 years to build. You get a real feel for what ship life was like on board. As a sailor, you slept below decks with 200 other sailors. Your dinner was something like porridge, moldy bacon and beer.

Crew Member Laurie slacking off at work
Crew member at rest

Is this all I get for dinner? I'm striking!
Crew's dinner
The captain’s life was much better. He had a huge cabin, and a roomy office below decks. He ate meals such as broiled chicken, wine and veggies. Passengers had they’re own cabins, but they were not exactly first class by today’s standards. There was barely room for a bunk bed, and this is where you lived for the 8 month journey. Better not be too tall, the bunk beds are only about 5 feet 8” long!

Its good to be the Captain, says Rob
Captain Rob's dinner

Later that evening, we had dinner at Femke’s and I experienced Holland’s answer to Halloween. It is “St. Martins Day”, where little kids with lanterns come to your door. They don’t wear costumes, but they sing you a little song, and you give them a treat. At least in Holland they have to work a little for the treat!

St. Martin's kids singing for a treat
St Martin's day

Sunday, November 5, 2006

My first driving lesson







  1. On Monday I had my first driving lesson. No, you don’t need new glasses, you did read this correctly. My US license is only valid 6 for six months. Then I need to take a theory and road exam (luckily both offered in English). Since 99.9998% cars in Holland are stick shift, and when in Rome…., thus I’m learning stick shift. Also, Dutch exams are notoriously difficult, so I’m taking some driving lessons first.

    A school Rob know promised an English speaking teacher. Well, they did not totally lie, she did know enough English to say “I have not spoken English in 5 years” as soon as I got in the car. So, it was an interesting experience. In fact, it reminded me in a lot of ways of high school exams.

    We had multiple choice questions:
    Teacher says “Push him in”. Does “him” refer to
    a. stick
    b. clutch
    c. break
    d. gas
    I must not have done very well on this part, because the teacher repeatedly asked me this question at various times as the car good imitation of a bucking bronco, or coming to a dead halt.

    True/False
    Teacher says “Go left”
    True: Left is in fact a bike path
    False: Right is a street
    Well, rebellious American that I am, I answered False, and went right onto the street

    And for the bonus round, a short essay question:
    “Turn left on the roundabout”….
    In 200 words or less, please explain this sentence
    “Turn right on the roundabout, go ¾ way around, put on left blinker and turn onto street”
    OK, I must admit, I had the True/False section down, was batting about 50/50 on the multiple choice , but I missed the short essay. I tried to turn left on the round about before aforementioned teacher went into conniptions and corrected me. Geesh, some people are really perfectionists!

Sunday, October 29, 2006

My Magic Castle - Holland Wedding Reception

My day as Princess of the Castle, with my Knight in Shining Armour

Knighting my prince

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If you know me (and of course you know me, or you would’t be reading my website), knows of my love (OK, OK, some say obsession) with all things medieval. Well, today I got to combine 2 dreams in one – a wedding reception with my magic prince in a real 15th century castle

Assumburg Castle - my magic castle for the day
Our magic castle

Its normal to take photo’s before your bridal reception, but I got the real medieval experience taking pictures on the castle roof. I got to scramble up narrow stairs with a long dress and 3 petticoats…I think I know now why there were so many maidens in the tower, because they could not climb down the tower with the long dresses!

Atop the castle roof
Castle roof
Up, Up she climbed to the castle tower
Up steep stairs in long dress

My parents and Jeremy flew out to join us in the celebration, and of course Rob's immediate family. As well, about 65 of our Dutch friends and family joined us to celebrate the day. We had a wonderful reception with drinks and snacks. We also did quite a few of the wedding tratitions. We had a cake that Femke baked from a traditional Irish recipe. We also did a "first dance" and a boquet toss. Rob's 8-year old cousin caught the boquet, so all those believing in the "next married" tradition" will have to wait a bit for they're wedding.

Cutting Irish Wedding Cake
Cutting Irish wedding cake

Boquet Toss
Boquet  toss

You will all be impressed that I gave a speech competely in dutch, which was actually understood. It ended somewhat like "An now I have found my Knight in shinin armor, and have my castle. Has anyone seen my white horse?"

Flieder Family Toast
Flieders toasting

Have you seen my white horse?
My prince and I

Sunday, October 22, 2006

Family visit to Holland

Flieders at Rijksmuseum

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Last weekend we hosted our wedding party for the Dutch family and friends. It was my parents final week here in Holland, and my brother Jeremy’s first few days here. It was only the second time that both sides of our families have met. The first of course was at our wedding, where the Flieders hosted the Kapteins in LA. Now, Rob’s family returned the favor and showed my parents fine Dutch hospitality. We were hosted by Rob’s parents Jan/Nettie, and his sister Femke, her husband Tomas and their son Quinten

Femke's wedding album

My family slept in one converted castle in Rob’s home town, and we had our wedding in the other. I absolutely promise to put all the wedding pics up with all the stories, but that is an blog or 3 in itself! This blog I’ll just tell a little of my family’s visit.

My family got to see the house that Rob grew up in, and actually so did his mother! Unlike in LA, where a house from 1950 is practically an antique, and very few families stay in the same house they’re entire life…Rob’s mother lives in the same house she grew up in. The house is from the 1930’s, but she moved there as a teen-ager in the 1950’s with her family. They can point out the was the coy pond Nettie’s brother built in the garden, some original woodwork and actual doors from the 1930’s, the garage put in 1960…each corner of the house has a story to tell about the same family living there!

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On Saturday, we all went over to Femke & Tomas’s house for coffee. There my parents could see 1 year old Quinten on his home turf, and since he can walk a bit now and has a huge vocabulary of 2 words, he gave us a complete tour of the house with commentary. After coffee, Jan & Nettie showed my parents the local dunes and beach areas.

Laurie & Jeremy in Amsterdam

Meanwhile, Rob and I went into Amsterdam to pick Jeremy up from the airport. We went into the city with Jeremy for a bite to eat, and get a brief glimpse of the town. After words, we all returned to Jan & Nettie house for an authentic Indonesian dinner called Rijsttafel. It literally translates in Dutch to “Rice on the Table”, and consists of rice & meats/veggies cooked in an Indonesian curry sauce.

As said before, I’m already writing a novel here, but done need War & Peace the Blog Version, so Sunday wedding party will go in another blog.

On Monday, Jeremy flew to Spain to join a tour of the area. My parents sight saw in Amsterdam for a few days. On Weds., Rob and I joined them for a fun day seeing art in the famous Rijksmuseum, doing a canal boat tour, and eating Dim Sum. My mother had some fresh pears left over, and could not bear to let them go to waste. She kept saying “Maybe the family on the tour boat would like them, some people at the train station….”, but unfortunately did not find any takers. Well, maybe by anonymous donation someone found them and said “Oh my, how did they know I wanted pears? How lucky!”

Pear Lady

Well, Thursday, my parents flew back to LA, where they are now comfortably sitting and reading this blog. It was an incredible visit, and we cant wait to see them again here…and I cant wait to come back in January!

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Visit to Leiden with my parents

My parents are visiting for the next 2 weeks! After 3 months, I get to see them again. We spent their second day here touring the beautiful Dutch city Leiden.

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Leiden_rembrant

Leiden is a beautiful city full of interesting history. It is birthplace of Rembrandt, who was interestingly the son of a windmill miller. The pilgrims also stayed in Leiden for 12 years before sailing to Plymouth Rock to become “Founding Fathers”. They have a little 2 room museum stuffed full of period memorabilia and very friendly curators who want to tell you everything about them.

Leiden church

Well, I hope you like history, since this there is so much fascinated history of Leiden.
Also of note, my second time driving in Holland, this time on freeways. Dutch have a lot of signs on the freeway!!

The canal tour took us along beautiful canals lined by stately homes. Each home is unique, with its own carvings and color. As well as looking pretty, this had a reason. Until the early 1800s, homes did not have any address numbers. You would say my house is the one with the pink roof and angry looking gargoyles, third down from the second canal to the left of the church. Image putting that on an envelope!

Leiden_canal4

We also visited the obligatory windmill museum. Did you know you are required to visit at least one windmill before you leave Holland? Yeah, it’s law 2.8876 on the books, really!

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One very important time in history of the city is in the 1570’s, when the city successfully defended itself against a siege by the Spanish. At the time, Holland was in a war of independence against the former overlords, the Spanish. After the Spanish were defeated, boats of “water pirates” came into the starving city with food. It was a weird combo of food, white bread and herring. I guess if you are starving even salty herring is good. To this day, on October 3, you can celebrate the liberation of the city with free herring and white bread.

Leiden_canal2

Also in appreciation for the defense of the city, the new Dutch King offered Leiden the choice of no taxes or founding of a university. Counter to what anyone would choose today, they choose for the university.

Wednesday, October 4, 2006

Willemsberg and Yom Kippur

This weekend, I attended services “Yom Kippur”, the start of the Jewish New year end went sight seeing in a small Dutch town named Willemstad.

On Sunday morning, myself , Rob & his family went to Willemstad. Of important note: yours truly drove the car for the first time in Holland. Not to different on the freeways, but on the narrow roads 2 way traffic and cyclists, it was a challenge! Ok, OK, I did post an earlier blog if driving for cows on a country lane, but that was only about 15 minutes, and the cows were very complimentary.

In 1953 the water flooded up to here In Willemstad:
willemstad_waterlevel

Rob and his family used to sail to Willemstad about every other year on vacations. It is most famous for its star-shaped walls that surround the city. There are 2 sets of walls and 2 sets of moats to protect against invaders. It worked, the city withstood a seige in 1720 by the French. Good thing, or we'd have to see "Wee Wee", instead of "Ja, Ja"

There are also a whole series of cement bunkers from the 1800’s that Rob used to play in with a flashlight when he was little. I guess one to many kids went missing, because they closed them off.

Quinten playing in Willemstad
willemstad_quinten

It is not exactly a bustling city of trade, as it took us about 20 minutes to walk around the whole town. We did find a very nice play set for my 1 year-old nephew, compete with slide and swings that we went on with him.

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Later on Sunday afternoon, we had a nice dinner, using the wedding china for the first time. It is traditional to have a nice dinner on the evening before Yom Kippur. After, you fast for 24 hours. Rob's family joined us, and I explained some of the traditions around the holiday.

willemstad_dinner2

After a very enjoyable dinner, Rob came with me to Sunday evening services.
I go to a temple in The Hague that is 280 years old. It is built in the Sephardic Portuguese style, with beautiful candle chandeliers and wood carvings. I’ll write a later blog on the temple history/pictures. I attended services on Monday as well. As well as the traditional services, they had a beautiful memorial service with a singer, and violin/cello music. It was a very moving service, all in all.